The plot thickens and it sucks

What do you do when you feel someone has been falsely accused and will probably lose his job because of the false accusations, but you don't know the first thing about anything through first-hand experience to be able to help?

And what do you do when you find out that a kid who is your son's age--a girl you pretty much had hopes of having as a daughter-in-law one day--probably isn't even going to make it to graduation?